1- What are the problems of adolescence
Adolescence
Adolescence is one of the most difficult stages for both males and females to go through, and this stage can be defined as a transitional stage that falls between childhood and adulthood, and usually begins at the age of twelve, and ends around the age of twenty, and the changes accompanying puberty begin to occur At this stage, as a result of the maturity of a number of endocrine glands, and their increased secretion in the body
especially the pituitary gland, whose secretion increases due to the growth of the reproductive organs, and the clarity of male and female sexual characteristics, and we will learn in this article about some common problems among adolescents
Adolescence problems
The teenager’s desire and attempt to get rid of all the restrictions imposed by the family on him, as his desire to enjoy complete independence increases. The teen’s feeling that he no longer needs the advice of his parents, and that he is able to make various decisions on his own without anyone’s help. Failure to choose friends, many teens fall prey to bad friends
affected by their behavior and habits, which may affect their academic future in a negative way. The great desire to impose control over brothers and friends, and to resort to the use of violence in dealings. Misuse of the Internet, by browsing various social networking sites for long hours, which negatively affects their communication skills and communication with others
To be exposed to many types of psychological disorders, such as: depression, the desire for introversion and isolation, and distance from social life. Disturbances in appetite towards eating, increasing the desire of some to eat more food, or, conversely, by reducing the amount of food eaten, or even going on strike. Smoking at an early age, often following the example of bad friends
and imitation of their behavior, and the imitation process may develop until it reaches theft, or drug abuse. Excessive nervousness, because the teenager thinks himself right in all his actions, and he is often very sensitive to the criticism of others, so he meets them with nervousness and anger
Ways to deal with teenage problems
Parents are supposed to get close to their teenage children, by treating them as friends, and to avoid dealing with them in a way of imposing orders, in order to increase the teen’s confidence in his parents, and inform them of the secrets he hides or what he has in his mind. Inculcating virtuous values and good manners in the hearts of children, and encouraging them to perform various types of worship, such as prayer, recitation of the Qur’an, and fasting
Do not make fun of the problems faced by the teenager, and show interest in dealing with them. Encouraging the teenager to be calm and avoid nervousness and violence in dealing with others. Encouraging teenagers to develop their hobbies and talents
What is adolescence for boys
Definition of Adolescence Adolescence is defined as the transitional stage from childhood to adulthood, and it entails several changes in physical, intellectual, personal, and social growth, and that stage is divided into three sections, the first being the early adolescence stage, which extends from the age of eleven to the fourteenth, then the middle adolescence stage, which extends from the age of fifteen to seventeen, and the late adolescence, which extends from the age of eighteen to the twenty-first
Intellectual development of adolescents
Boys and girls during adolescence often make their judgments about things in specific and absolute terms; In their view, things are either right or wrong, wonderful or very bad, and they rarely have a future outlook, and this explains their reckless behavior; They do not realize the long-term consequences of their actions
Dealing with a teenage boy Tips when dealing with a teenage son
Parents should follow the following tips in dealing with their teenage sons: Give full attention to the son when he speaks, focus on understanding his point of view, and not be preoccupied with other things, such as: reading, or watching TV
, or something else. Talk nicely to your son. Understand the son’s feelings regardless of his behavior, and keep the opportunity open for dialogue on any topic. Do not underestimate the value of the son or make fun of him just because he asks questions that are unnecessary from the point of view of the parents. Enhancing self-confidence
by encouraging him to participate in activities, provided that these activities have been chosen according to what the son wants and not the parents. Praise the son frequently and appropriately. Encouraging the son to participate in family decision-making
Dealing with the son when mistakes are made
Parents should be aware of the possibility that they will be exposed to disrespectful behavior by their children during adolescence, and the solution is to prepare a disciplinary measure such as placing the son for a small amount of money in the piggy bank whenever he engages in impolite behavior, and then donating it to a foundation Charity at the end of the year
and sanctions should be relied on short-term, not long-term; For example, if a son makes a mistake, the parents should deprive him of one of the privileges, such as: watching television, for a period of only one week; Because the open punishment gives the son a feeling that he has nothing to lose, as he will continue the wrong behavior, and it is indicated the need to stay away from the threat of punishments that will not be implemented; This will lead him to make mistakes
teenage danger
Adolescence Adolescence is defined as a period of life starting from fifteen years to twenty-one years, and this period is characterized by being one of the most difficult periods for a person, as it is volatile and accompanied by many physical, mental, emotional and social changes, in addition to being the first test for a person. In his life, and it is indicated that the future of nations and their civilizations are greatly affected by the adolescence of their members
and this stage is experiencing many dangers that parents must be aware of, and try as much as possible to control them, and in the lines of our next topic we will introduce you to the most important dangers of adolescence, and ways to overcome on her
The dangers of adolescence
The existence of a gap between the adolescent and his family at the end of childhood, and the beginning of adolescence A gap occurs between the adolescent and his family, according to what studies have proven, and this leads to the difficulty of talking to them and solving their problems at home, and this is what makes them tend to isolate and introvert from others
Adolescent personality disorder
One of the most important problems that female and male youth may encounter in adolescence is personality disorders, and this is what makes them form groups with people far from the family and the family, which leads to them entering a state of confusion and instability over a specific personality throughout this stage. critical
Nervousness and stubbornness
The adolescent at this stage becomes excessively sensitive, and enters a state of nervousness and stubbornness without justification, in addition to seeing everything he does as right and correct, and that others are wrong
Protecting young people from the danger of adolescence
sitting with them as if they were friends, and avoiding pretentiousness and compliment when talking to them, in addition to avoiding reprimand and vilification. Opening the way for the teenager to find his own way, even if this path is wrong, because wrong is a way to learn right sometimes. The participation of adolescents in scientific dialogues that deal with topics similar to the problems of the adolescent
and which contain a solution to treat them, and this is useful in developing self-confidence, and speaking frankly. Parents choose the appropriate time to start a conversation with teens, and avoid talking to them while they are busy or have certain obligations
Making real dialogue a basis for discussion away from dissonance and conflict, and making sure to understand the teenage children’s point of view to make them feel that their affairs are recognized. Parents stay away from asking questions with the content of an answer with acceptance or denial, or questions that are not clear, and open the way for the teenager to express himself in the way he deems appropriate
Allowing adolescents to express their thoughts comfortably, directing them towards programs that enshrine the concepts of tolerance and coexistence with those around them, strengthening their religious motivation by performing religious duties, and accompanying the righteous. Spread love, justice, safety
and independence in the environment in which they are located, as the loss of these matters leads to the disintegration of the family, academic failure, avoiding the language of threat and punishment, and trying to be fair between children as much as possible
